LETTER TO THE EDITOR
Last week an interesting situation arose for my college sophomore
daughter. With community spirit in her heart and youthful exuberance on
her side, she applied to join a volunteer group known as the Hoag
Hospital Auxiliary. We are all familiar with these cheerful gals in blue
who pleasantly direct you to the cafeteria, gift shop, Aunt Lou’s room
(well, you get the picture). A radical idea for a college girl you might
say -- well, apparently it was to the well-seasoned Hoag Hospital
Auxiliary.
My daughter’s volunteer help was politely declined due to the fact that
she is -- now hold on to your hats, folks -- a college student. What will
those crazy kids think of next? Before too long they’ll be infiltrating
Meals on Wheels.
As the sweet-voiced auxiliary member on the telephone told her, “college
students are generally unreliable. Nothing personal,” she added, to ease
the blow.
The hospital volunteer ventured on, offering up discouraging repartee as
to the mundane tasks (such as filing) that would have been in store for
my daughter had she displayed the responsibility quotient needed for the
job. As my daughter confided in me after the conversation, it was a
devastating blow to find out that she wouldn’t be allowed to perform
brain surgery. While the gal on the telephone assured my daughter that
keeping college students out of the Hoag Hospital Auxiliary was standard
policy and that she was just doing her job, it sounded a little bit on
the fishy side to me. While I am positive that some college students are
unreliable, I am certain that to use a gross generalization about a
population of people is illogical reasoning.
If we are to follow this line of reasoning, then all New Yorkers are
rude, all Californians are kooky, and all senior citizens are menacing on
the roadways.
In applying for this volunteer position, my daughter included her resume
with the standard application so that the auxiliary would have a little
more information than the short form called for. The application asked
critical questions, such as are you strong enough to push a wheelchair
fully loaded? Can you walk a mile without resting?
Here are some highlights of my madcap offspring: college sophomore,
biology major, National Mathematics Honor Society, California Community
College Honor Society, member of The Association of Women in Science, 4.0
grade point average, currently studying piano and dance. Oh yes, she also
works Saturdays and Sundays (for more than one year, no misses) at Balboa
Yacht Club.
As you can see, she is just the kind of shifty character that raises fear
in the hearts of volunteer groups. It seems to me to be incredibly
shortsighted to decide -- sight unseen -- that a particular person
falling into a particular populace should be routinely dismissed without
any discernible thought as to the individual.
I can just visualize members of the hospital auxiliary complaining to
family and friends, “What is wrong with kids today?” Well, hospital
auxiliary, to be perfectly blunt, you are. Here is an example of an
outstanding young woman who wants to play a larger part in her community.
Shame on you for discouraging her.
Apparently the only way this young woman will be getting into Hoag
Hospital is through admitting, or better yet maybe some day as a doctor.
My money is on the latter.JANE BACKUS
Costa Mesa
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