Separate but equal

Thank you, Mark Miller, for expressing what I decided years ago was the perfect love relationship setup: separate homes (“Happily Ever Apart,” Nov. 11). Zsa Zsa Gabor was way out in front on this years ago when she said that she never sleeps with any of her husbands nor shares bathrooms. Separate homes and scheduled dates are perfect for even a monogamous, long-term committed relationship, especially one between adults who have been around the block once or twice.

I applaud your discussion of the subject, and don’t be frightened. For adults, it might be the only way.

Paula Duffy

Long Beach