A Manâs Eyes : Even Macho Types Are Enhancing Lashes, Plucking Brows, Concealing Bags
WHEN ERNEST Hemingway first met Scott Fitzgerald in a Paris bar in 1925, he was struck by his rivalâs boyish good looks. Fitzgerald, he later wrote, had a delicate mouth and âexcited and friendly eyes.â
In fact, throughout Fitzgeraldâs life, people remarked on his eyes. When he was a boy, they were described variously as green, blue or gray. And a Princeton friend remembered him as âthe handsomest boy Iâve ever seen. He had yellow hair and lavender eyes.â
Unfortunately, not all men are blessed with such mesmerizing features--especially since many women say that a manâs eyes are what they notice first. But eye-care specialists and grooming professionals say there are many things a man can do to enhance his eyes.
Makeup artist Mark Richard, whose clients have included Kirk Douglas and Robert Stack, thinks that if a man is being photographed for a wedding or a corporate brochure, he shouldnât hesitate to apply a little concealer to camouflage dark circles under his eyes.
But even a man who would never wear cosmetics, Richard says, should make sure that his eyes are well-groomed. âIâd start with what I call elephant-hair eyebrows,â he says of the coarse hairs that sprout as a man gets older. âTheyâre not only unflattering but aging.â To get rid of them, he suggests, stroke each brow inward, toward the bridge of the nose, and then clip any stray hairs left standing.
And, he says, âitâs true what your mother told you: Eyes that look too close together make a man look as if he canât be trusted.â So a man whose brows run together may want to consider plucking them with tweezers, asking his haircutter to do it or having them waxed.
Eyebrow waxing is available at numerous hair and skin-care salons. Catherine Wood is an independent facialist who works at the Cristophe salon in Beverly Hills and charges $12 to wax a manâs brows.
Wood also dyes eyelashes ($18) and uses a collagen pack to alleviate dryness around the eyes. âItâs a sponge saturated with collagen liquid that I lay around the eyes at the end of a massage,â she says. âItâs $15 extra on top of a facial, which costs $60.â While Wood acknowledges that âcrowâs-feet can look good on men,â such lines can disturb some peopleâs self-esteem. Hence, more and more cosmetics manufacturers are offering eye creams formulated to minimize wrinkles. Kiehlâs Since 1851 is a venerable New York company whose products are available at selected retailers (Neiman Marcus and Fred Segal) and by mail. Among its products is Ultra Protection Moisturizing Eye Gel, with a sun protection factor of 18 (about $30).
Klaus Heidegger, spokesman for menâs division of Kiehlâs, says that any man who engages in an outdoor sport should use at least a moisturizer, especially around the eyes, if he wants to forestall wrinkling. âRunners sweat,â he says, âso they need to apply it more.â Kiehlâs also makes a water-resistant Mt. Everest â88 Expedition Sunscreen with an SPF of 18 (around $14), which Heidegger says is particularly good for skiing and sailing.
Other activities can also take their toll on a manâs eyes. As he got older, the alcoholic Fitzgeraldâs eyes appeared bloodshot and bleary. But Dr. Peter McDonnell, an ophthalmologist at the Doheny Eye Institute at USC, says that âas part of the aging process, your eyes are a little less clear. You get little broken blood vessels in other parts of your body as well, but the conjunctiva (the mucous membrane that covers the front of the eyeball) being so thin, they show up in your eyes more.â
McDonnell says that âsome conjunctival changes--raised spots, yellowish maybe--are caused by ultraviolet-light exposure. So there seems to be a good rationale for wearing UV-absorbing sunglasses. And the effect seems to be cumulative, so the earlier you start using them, the better--driving, skiing, on the beach, sailing.â
But if a manâs eyes are merely betraying fatigue or overindulgence, McDonnell says, eye drops and other simple measures can help. âSome people find comfort with a cool washcloth,â he says. âCoolness constricts blood vessels and can be soothing. It decreases swelling.â
Meanwhile, Richard insists that more men than one would ever suspect are using makeup to give Mother Nature a hand. At many beauty supply stores, he says, a man can buy black hair pomade and use a smear of it to darken and add luster to his lashes.