Lawsuit on Graduation Prayer

Isympathize and identify with James Brodhead and his family’s lawsuit to forbid prayers at graduations (May 23, June 4). As a third-generation atheist, I have been in the same position many times. The last two that really bothered me were this spring at the United Chambers of Commerce Fernando Awards and when my daughter graduated from Pepperdine University School of Law at Malibu.

Just what is the proper response to: “Shall we bow our heads in prayer?” Unlike Mr. Brodhead, I’ve never had the nerve to say no. Should I hum a tune and ignore them or ask for equal time to expound on the wonders of logical thinking and rational problem-solving? After all, they build these beautiful churches and temples and chapels and they can pray anytime, anywhere they want to themselves. Isn’t this enough? Do they have to force it on the rest of us?

I think it’s rude in a pluralistic society like ours for any faith to assume that everyone in a captive secular audience wants to pray. I wish the ACLU continued success in further protecting my freedom from religion.

SHIRLEY BRAVERMAN

Tarzana